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Everyone needs someone serious to love, and have sex with in a long-term relationship, maybe even marry. Each individual has emotional and sexual needs for partnership and finding the right partner can take years! Compatibility is easier with similarities and harder with differences although attraction can happen with opposites. Like attracts like is the old saying. Birds hang out with birds, bees with bees, dogs with dogs, etc. Humans on the search in dating and mating look for a mutual interest to continue getting to know another person and if the interest remains mutual through time then it can lead to a partnership. Sex happens in both primitive and developed cultures. The difference between primitive and civilized societies is that love deepens the sex act and improves culture. Any person can have sex but it takes intelligence to feel love for another while having sex. Intelligent people are more selective and will choose a sex partner with love. A highly developed society has love songs and celebrating Valentine Day is important to express love in many ways: music, poetry, food, touch, kiss, greeting card, alcohol, chocolate, stuffed toy, painting, conversation, flowers and of course sex. Romantic feelings need expression from lovers and partners because our hearts crave the words of love and without them, some people become depressed and suicidal. Loneliness can cause sadness so it is important to find love in life, from family, friends, and a partner. It is possible that some people become sick without love and sex. In this modern world, many seek it even on the internet using the computer and websites for singles who are also lonely and desperate for a companion. Members can connect and meet to find out if there is any attraction to continue on for compatibility. Our bodies need sex and our hearts need love. To get both from another is worth commitment and marriage. But before we can find that special one person who matches well, we all have to meet so many others in trial and error. Some people find a partner early in life, others never find one... With billions of people on earth, there are lots to choose from and obviously, most people do find a mate and have children so thus the human population continues to grow! The sex and mating instinct is strong in most people and breeding is a natural part of the partnership. Most marriages are monogamous although there are some who commit adultery when unhappy with their spouse. This can lead to divorces and second marriages. Thus love and sex are very important for happy marriages and Valentine Day is the best day, aside from the wedding anniversary, to remember and renew love for your partner and other love ones.
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